&
& as we ready ourselves to bid this year farewell, & we finally arrive at the long
awaited 2010, I reflect. & a question posed to me by a friend comes to mind;
'what if your life went up for auction, would you bid on it?' Yes, of course I would!
I replied, a true reflection of my feelings. & as the world tries desperately to
recover from the mistakes of greed, we at Franco's managed to keep our heads
above water & we are thankful for the cogs that churn & keep us & our staff in a
positive light. & we celebrated the marriage of our dear Claudia to Deon this year
& I was given the honour of walking my niece down the aisle. A privilege I thought
I may never get, having been blessed with only two lovely boys. & the Forleo's,
the McClellan's & the Folgore's, all united in song & dance. & we ate & partook
in traditional festivities as we shared the first hours of the newly weds new life. & I
take this opportunity in welcoming Deon into our tightly knit family & hope to
share many family reunions together & to also pop a cork or two, something we
know he is capable of doing… welcome Deon, we wish you & Claudia 'auguri e
tanti figli maschi' & with celebrations come also moments of sorrow, & we bid
farewell to zio Antonio Folgore, a true gentleman through & through… 'nu vero
pezz' i pane!' & for my mother, the grief felt when receiving news of the passing of
my uncle Premio & that of my aunt Yolanda & also of my cousin Salvatore, was a
lot for her to endure, all in one year. & on a lighter note, we heard stories of the
Big Apple from Ricky & we suspect that part of him stayed behind. But he did
bring back with him, a souvenir, a Les Paul electric guitar. & when all good people
retire & the owls come out in prey of mice, you can hear the sounds of this
instrument filter through the stillness of the night, (what wonderful neighbours we
have!). & with this, Ricky composed a unique wedding march & played his cousin
down the isle, a special moment for all to remember. & Frankie cruised through
yet another year & how nice it was to have him help me even more at the
restaurant. Dividing himself between three jobs had become a juggling act, but to
my delight some of these ended, & it gave me pleasure to have all three boys
working together, this year. & I do believe that as good as it was for the boys to
throw anchor into stability, it was equally beneficial for the ship we sail, during
turbulent navigational times. & Dear Massi, who usually prefers to fly's low, under
the radar, surprised us all with a wonderful speech at his sisters wedding, partly
Yiddish, Scottish & a little Napolitano thrown in too, a true linguistic pirate is he!
& as the world prepares itself for 2010 & all eyes are upon us as a nation, the
question most asked is, 'can we or can't we pull it off?' & with this grand event we
too will add to the celebrations, as Nona will be turning 80 Brava Nonnina…! still
fit as a fiddle & lucid as the stars in the sky! & who was that....? There it goes
again….! Can it be…? No it can't…! Yes it is…. It's TINA! What the ---- is she
doing on the back of that Harley? Breakfast runs & all…. Well, I'm
FINISHED….! as Jay would say, & speaking of Jay, who kept me in good
working order this year, with her lectures on cholesterol, exercise & remember,
not to have too much of the juices from the vine tonight…. OK! One glass,
remember, otherwise I'm phoning Dr.Bosman! (my physician). & to my partner of
life I say this, that if ever I were to run the marathon of life again, I could think of
no one better with whom to jog it through with…. & as for me, I spent time on my
arts & also my crafts & did a bit of this and a bit of that… amongst which I build a
new website www.francoforleo.co.za & I also took on the mammoth task of
scanning over 300 old, & some very old family pictures, which took me back on a
very emotional journey. & I compiled some photo books so as to preserve some
of our history…. & I just did what men usually do, who gaze over the summit of
their hill, trying to keep the old ticker ticking, eating less, ( not so easy!), read lots
& lots & do as many Sudoku puzzles as one can…. & with this dear friends, I
believe my space is up, which leaves me with only one line to wish you all well
over the festive season & have a glorious 2010. PS &…………….Thank you for
being our friends.